The Adventures of Sir and Babygirl by Kayla Lords

There are no billionaires or red rooms in my stories. And in my books, I try to depict real people in real D/s relationships. I write about my D/s life over at my blog plus other sexy things (like Masturbation Monday!). There is nothing more sensuous (and slightly naughty) than wearing a sundress in summer knowing there’s nothing between you and a swishing skirt. Ok, because I am a sex blogger and erotica writer, I should give you a little sexy visual, huh? Well, he picks my panties out each day (via text or email), and I take a picture in them everyday and send it to him.

And any, shall we say, adult tasks are handled behind closed doors. (Disclaimer: we’ve been in a long distance relationship since 2013, and as of June 7, we will be moving in together! Can I get a collective /squeee?) He assigns tasks, and I have things I have to do, but they’re mundane things that I just do within my normal day. What the kids usually see is that I am very respectful and that I take care of my Daddy when he’s with us. Just like you wouldn’t have vanilla sex in front of your kids (at least I hope not!), I don’t ask to be spanked in front of my boys. You can have this kind of relationship with children. A part of me is a little insulted, but a bigger part wants to help people understand. Rawr!Ī question I get a lot is how I have a D/s relationship with children. This works well, because my Daddy is a sadist.

Because on top of being a babygirl, I’m also a masochist (which means I like pain).

I’m more of a whips and chains girl, myself. I know many people who are into that kind of thing, but I’m not one of them. Being Daddy means that while yes, he’s the Dominant and in charge, he’s more nurturing and less strict.įor those of you imagining that it’s all pink bows, lollipops, and cartoons, think again. No age play for us! Being babygirl means allowing my vulnerable side to show through. First of all, I don’t think I’m a little girl, and second of all, he doesn’t want me to be a little girl. Ok, ok, I know, some people have an ick factor about that. I’m a submissive woman and the love of my life (because boyfriend sounds wrong) is a Dominant man. Other than promoting my own writing (duh, right?), I like to take every chance I can to show people that BDSM – specifically Dominance and submission (D/s) – isn’t all fantasy, isn’t all fiction, and isn’t all scary. So what the hell am I doing here today? Hmmm, good question. My name is Kayla Lords, and I’m a sex blogging, erotica writing submissive woman who lives and loves the BDSM lifestyle. Hey there! Thanks, Alisa, for having me (rawr!) today.

The Adventures of Sir and Babygirl by Kayla Lords